SUMMARY SECTION ONE The purpose of the article is to convey a better understanding of what guides our actions in everyday life. The method used to support the arguments of the article is a 'phenomenological analysis': a technique which is purely descriptive and empirical(relying sole on experiment and observation). Different spheres of realities exist within everyday life. The transition from one reality to another creates a shock, as a result of the shift in attentiveness in the psyche. Of all existing realities, the 'reality of everyday life' reigns supreme. It empowers attentiveness and