Personal Writing: Affectiveness in Communication Observing the way a person communicates can allow a person to be aware of their communication behavior. The person who I observerved was my mother. She seemed to be aware of her effectiveness to communicate before my observation. She also seemed to have an effective style about the way she communicated. My mother is a typical old fashion mother. She sometimes accuses in situations rather than expressing her feelings. For example, when something gets broke in the house she would always blame me for it. She would never express the way that she really feels about the situation. On the other h